Monday, March 23, 2015

Book Report on Germany for Sophie-girl

The time difference is 8 hours from Utah to Germany, and it is hard to catch a good window to talk to someone in Germany.  You have to call them before 2 pm, or they will be in bed!  So I helped Sophie with her international report about Germany via email questions.  Thought I would post it here, since I took the time to write out my thoughts....might as well. :)

GERMAN LANGUAGE:
Some easy words in German are:
Hallo (hello)
Tschüß  (goodbye)    It is pronounced like "JUICE" but starts with a "CH" sound instead of the J.   /choo-s/
Mein Name ist.....   (my name is....)    /Nah-mah/
Bitte  (Please and Your welcome)      /bitta/
Danke  (Thank you)
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The schools in Germany are interesting.
The children are not required to go to school until they are 6 years old, and start 1st grade.   However, most children start Kindergarten when they are 2 or 3 years old, and attend the same Kindergarten group until they enter school at age 6.   Kindergarten is a German word.  In America we adopted the word from Germany, and use it for the year before 1st grade.  But actually, Kindergarten in Germany is all pre-school attended before elementary school. 

Elementary school is called "Grundschule" and is 1st through 4th grade.   The children in Grundschule have the same teacher for all 4 years of this school.  

Here in our town, the children are encouraged to walk to school in groups together, even in the winter.  They are asked to wear reflective vests to walk to school, because it is dark outside, and makes them more visible to cars.    It is nice to walk to school because you can talk to your friends on the way and also get your wiggles out and when you arrive, you feel ready to learn.

A typical German backpack for elementary school is called a "Schulranzen."  Here are two examples.  They are larger than most American backpacks, and have a hard casing.  
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The children bring a snack to school.    They have class from 8-11:30 in first grade, and 30 minutes longer each grade after that.  
Timmy has 2 subjects, has a recess break, eats his snack and has two more subjects with another short break.   

Kids who choose to stay for OGS (after school time) can have a hot lunch after school and do homework together in the classroom.  Then, they can play or attend different sports or classes (swimming, soccer, drums, ping pong, arts & crafts).   Most children like to stay for this after-school time.

Starting in fifth grade, the kids have 3 high school options, which they attend from 5th grade until 11th or 12th grade:
Gymnasium is the option that leads a person to attend University or college.   You have to have good grades and a recommendation from your elementary school teacher to attend gymnasium.

Realschule is the other option, and you can attend a trade school after attending this high school, to learn a trade and directly go into the work force.

Gesamtschule is the 3rd option.  In this high school, you have kids who are preparing both for trade school and for University.  They intermingle with each other and socialize at school together, but each student is on a different "track" to either prepare for college or a trade, and you usually cannot switch easily once you have started another.

If someone chooses to attend University after attending a Realschule, they will need to take a 1-2 year additional course to pass the "Abitur" test in order to apply for University or College.

One part of education that is interesting about Germany is that people who attend College or University have very low tuition.  Medical school might cost 250 Euros per semester.   The education is funded by the state.  As long as you qualify and are accepted into a University program, you can study for very little money.  (In the United States tuition can range from ($3,000 - $40,000 per semester)

The food in Germany is DELICIOUS. :)
They have the very best bakeries, which bake fresh bread and sweets and cakes every day.  You can go to the bakery each morning and get croissants and rolls and bread that were just baked fresh that morning.
 
Germans eat a lot of pork.  They love sausage, cheese, wine, and beer.  They also eat a lot of fresh vegetables and fruits.  
Some of our favorite foods are spätzle, which is a German pasta, and Semmel Knödel, which are German dumplings made of dried bread.

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RECREATION/TRADITIONS
Some of the holdiays that we have enjoyed here are 
St. Martins Day and Karnival
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St. Martin's Day is a lantern festival.  It celebrates a Saint who shared his cloak with a poor man when he was a soldier before he was converted to Christianity.  The schools and kindergartens all celebrate it with making lanterns and having a nighttime parade with the lanterns.  They sing special lantern songs and parade a route through the streets, usually following someone dressed up like St. Martin on a horse, ending at a bonfire, where they reenact the St. Martin's Story.  In the reenactment, Martin sees a poor man, freezing to death, and slices his cloak in half with his sword, and shares one piece with the poor man.    After the play, the children eat "Weckmänner" which are little bread-man with a little pipe.    My friend Lisa said that it used to be that there would not be enough Weckmänner, and the children should think about sharing with each other so that everyone gets some.

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Karnival is more of a roudy holiday, in comparison with the religious St. Martin's day.
It is a big party where everyone dresses up silly, and there are ceremonies in the city that are all meant to be silly.  There are huge parades that block the streets and the cars and tractors and other vehicles are dressed up, and throw candy to the on-lookers.  it begins at 11:11 am on November 11th with some parties and takes a bit of a rest during the Christmas holidays......and completes on Rose Monday in February, two days before Ash Wednesday.

Karnival is mostly celebrated in the Cologne, Germany region.    Other parts of Germany celebrate different traditions.  Bayern has Oktoberfest and Fasching, for example, which is similar to Karnival.

With Recreation, people really like to hike and bike here.  Road biking is a big pasttime where people take the trains and bike home with gear on the back of the bike...sometimes even staying the night in hotels on the way home.   Hiking and walking are very popular.  Swimming is also big.  Mountain climbing in the alps and of course, skiing.

Good luck on your report Sophers!!
Love,

Katie

Saturday, March 21, 2015

A rare Family Picture with all 5 of us.

I noticed that our blog doesn't have many pictures of us all together.
Came across this family picture, and thought I'd share.  We had such a wonderful Christmas with great friends, and will share a post soon about that memorable trip.

Our Christmas letter from 2014

For posterity sake, I will post our Christmas letter that we emailed to friends and family this last year in 2014.  
MERRY CHRISTMAS!
From Scott, Katie, Timmy (7), Aaron (5), and Cora (1) Stapleton
Our family has been living in Aachen, Germany for 2 ½ years.  We have loved our experiences here.  I get asked all the time what the best part is of living abroad.  Our favorites things have been:
1.                  Listening to the boys learn and speak German.  So much fun! 
2.                  People.  Serving in the church and meeting wonderful church members who have welcomed us to their ward family.  Amazing Neighbors.  I am not exaggerating.
3.                   Experiencing life in another part of the world.  It has been enlightening to live somewhere where certain traditions and mindsets and philosophies are different, where the whole health care/taxation/social benefits/school system are different. I appreciate things here we do not enjoy back home, and I still have things that I long for that we enjoy in the states. 
4.                  Living in a historic place where the history dates back to Roman times!  I enjoy (and will forever miss when we leave) the quaint cafés, the narrow alleys, and the foot-traffic-only gathering places in the middle of each and every town (no matter how small!).  We need only hop on the bus and go into town to feel like we are on a European vacation.  It’s lovely, and we never tire of it.
5.                  Traveling and getting a taste of new places. I always think I will get my “fix” and “fill” to satiate my desire to travel and see new places, but I’ve experienced enough now to know that I will never get tired of it.  It’s been really fun to live somewhere where it is literally 10 Minutes in the car to go over the border into the Netherlands and Belgium.  It has also been accessible to take the train, and occasionally fly a few hours on a budget airline and be completely immersed in another culture and language.

INDIVIDUAL UPDATES:
Scott: Is finishing up a 3 year post-doc at RWTH Aachen University.  He is right in the middle of the application/interviewing process for tenure-track professorship positions, which would most likely begin in August 2015. It’s one of those exciting years for us where life is in limbo, and we know we are going somewhere  this summer, but do not know where yet!  We feel the fragility of our lives, and are grateful that they are in the Lord’s hands.
Katie:  Is highly occupied with the baby: feeding the baby, dressing the baby, entertaining the baby, and getting her to sleep, and she LOVES it!  The boys keep her busy taking them to and from school and kindergarten each day, swimming, and to other appointments and outings.  She loves when the baby is napping, when she can rush through housework, organize life and plan trips.  She just truly “discovered” Facebook this year (Thanks to Cookie Allred) and loves to catch up with friends there.  She also teaches a beginning yoga and back fitness class at the fitness center up the street and loves teaching and singing with the primary kids at church.
Timmy:  Timmy has shown a real talent for swimming, and has also started reading and writing in German and English this year.  He is in the “Erste Klasse” (1st grade) with Frau Tschernoster.  He loves school and enjoys walking there with friends from his class, and playing with his two best pals, Sabastian and Arghya in the OGS.  He is having a birthday party at Aquana pool this week, and is excited to play with his best friends there.
Aaron:  Aaron has mastered the 2 wheeled bike this year.  He is a pro.  He loves to ride his bike and even tries doing tricks.  He is a natural, in great control, and very safe, which amazes everyone who watches him bike, as he rings his bell, weaves through crowds, and waits carefully by each driveway and light for me.  He is very interested in all kinds of subjects and can’t wait to go to school.  He enjoys his new kindergarten that he started attending in August, and playing with his best friend, Leo.
Both of the boys achieved their “Seepferdchen” (basic swimming certificate) this summer, and are working on their “Bronze” swim certificate.
Cora:  Is army crawling all over the place, and chattering indistinguishable words in her cute little voice.  She also likes to sing to herself.  She gives big smiles to strangers and loves to laugh, which makes her the sweetheart baby at my gym, with people we meet at the grocery store, and on the sidewalk on our way to and from school & kindergarten.  She is “our baby” and we all dote on her lots and love to make her laugh.
The Most Exciting parts of 2014 AT-A-GLANCE
In January, we rang in the New Year with Grandma and Grandpa P., and our new baby, Cora Jane. 
In February, we celebrated Karnival with the Lüth and Siebke Families in Mausbach.
Our dear Grandma Brown passed away.  We were grateful Scott was able to attend the funeral.
In March, we tagged along with Scott to Paris (he had a conference).  Cora and I also flew to Barcelona to visit John and Cookie Allred, who were serving as missionaries for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints as CES Institute Missionaries.  Cora and I had a great time with them! 
In April, we rounded off our “Trip-fest” with a trip to Crete, Greece with Scott’s mom, Janice.  Such a great trip!  We visited the West side of the island.  Highlights were Kris at Kris Apartments and his amazing breakfasts with fresh squeezed orange juice each morning, and Loutro, a quiet (and I mean quiet!) fishing town on the southern coast.  One of those charming towns with white washed buildings, blue doors, turquoise sea, the goats on the hill, and hiking along the coast.
In June, Allie came to visit!  Highlights were the Aachen Kletterwald, hiking Lousberg, touring Liege, Masstricht, and Amsterdam, where we had some mad-delicious Indian food.
Germany won the World Cup!!!!
In Summer, Timmy and Aaron did an intense swim course.  We swam 7 times a week for a month.  (2 x a day on W/Fr!) 
We visited Bojana and Matt in Bremen, and Christian in Hamburg.  Great friends from our Michigan days, who also happen to be great tour guides!  Afterward, we spent a night on the Wattland.
In September and October we were delighted to get visits from Tim & Janice (Scott’s parents), as Tim was on his way to the World Arm Wrestling Championships in Lithuania!  Annie, one of my best friends from the mission, stopped by on her way to the US from Thailand with her friend, Braden.  So fun to see them!  Dan & Janet came for a remarkable tour of Germany which included Janet running the Berlin Marathon (amazing lady!!) and touring family history sites in Northern Germany.  Thanks to Dan, we now know that we have bragging rights…..our children are descendants of Charlemagne!   It was nice to see family and friends here.  It was like they brought home to us
For the fall break, we took a family trip to Pula, Croatia (we’ve got to pack it in before we leave!).  We enjoyed the pebbly beaches and clear water, and waterfalls of Plitvice National Park.  In November, we celebrated St. Martin’s Tag  at Aaron’s and Timmy’s schools, and then a very delicious and heartfelt Thanksgiving with our friends, the Baumann Family.
MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU!!  WE ARE GRATEFUL FOR WONDERFUL FRIENDS AND FAMILY. 
WE LOVE YOU AND WISH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY “A GOOD SLIDE” (as they say in Germany) INTO THE NEW YEAR! 
Love,
The Stapleton Family

Little headlines from the last few winter days

General News from us from the past few weeks:

Aaron had a blood test which came up with unusually low Ferriten levels, which is a reflection of low-iron.  We are trying to eat more cow....and less of the milk the cow produces, combined with Iron drops with Vitamin C.

I was sick with the flu.  The REAL flu.  The kind that makes your whole body ache, right down to the roots of your teeth, and deep into the sinuses in the jaw, temples and inside tips of the eyebrows.  It was painful.  For many days.  After two weeks, I am finally feeling back to normal.

Cora is standing nicely for seconds at a time.  Not a lot of interest in walking yet.  She seems to be less contended with the world in general though, and I think it is coming.  She does like to crawl around the apartment, and seems to get a thrill out of following the boys around and trying to get into their Lego Chima.  The boys have forbidden it.  They periodically place signs on the door for her to know that she is forbidden to enter.   Case for this week:


Timmy is reading up a storm.  He is trying to earn points on Antolin.de, every day or every other day by reading a book (in German).  He is starting to get it.  It is hard, and can be very slow, but he is a trooper, and has kept at it, and it seems to be getting easier.  He also likes to make his own "books" with pictures.  Mostly, he makes up stories about the Lego Chima characters.
 Cora is not happy to be restrained into her highchair, but flips and stands so quickly that we have to.  This is causing a lot of unhappiness at the dinner table.  On the plus side, look at those razor-sharp 4 front teeth ripping through that apple?  She's really growing up and learning to chew and eat everything.  Her favorite food lately is cooked celery.

 Timmy lost his two front teeth about a month ago.
 Aaron lost his FIRST tooth (bottom left) last week.  He was SO excited for the tooth fairy to visit and of course..... I forgot.  He had to remind me.....because he knows that I am the tooth fairy.  That happened one night when Timmy came crying out of his room that the tooth fairy hadn't come yet.  He had been waiting up patiently for hours so he could "catch" the tooth fairy and find out who it is that leaves the Euro.  I decided to just "sneak" in and let him catch me after that.  I couldn't handle the tears.  Both he and Aaron were so delighted to catch me in the tooth/Euro swap. 
We can still have fun pretending together though and doing the "tooth fairy" tradition.